Thomas Jefferson Coffey was born on Feb. 16, 1805 in Burke Co., NC to Ambrose and Mildred (Millie) Moore Coffey. He died Nov. 1, 1858 in Brazoria Co., TX and was buried in the Sandy Point Cemetery in that county.
He was married to Malinda Graves Haley on Jul. 17, 1827* in Hinds Co., MS. Malinda was born Nov. 17, 1808 in TN and died in Brazoria Co. on Dec. 24, 1857. She is also buried at Sandy Point. I have wondered if perhaps Malinda had been previously married to a Mr. Haley and, if Graves was her maiden name!?
According to several genealogies that I have seen, Thomas and Malinda were parents to at least eight children. I have been unable to confirm the first two; America and Eugenia.
Their third child was Minerva who married Thomas Lobdell. They had at least one child, Henry Lee, born Sep. 5, 1850 and died Aug. 23, 1852 in Brazoria Co. Henry is buried at Sandy Point.
Their next child ws Aaron, born 1832, died 1912. Aaron is said to have married Mary Summerville Smith on Mar. 28, 1860 in Galveston Co., TX. I know of two children: Julia Summerville Coffey, born Dec. 8, 1864. She is said to have married a Mr. Ridgeway. The second child was a daughter, Cassie Kyle. Aaron died in 1912 and was buried at Pecan Grove Cemetery in McKinney, Collin Co., TX.**
Ellen came after Aaron. She was born Jun. 17, 1835 in MS and died Apr. 1, 1866*** in Brazoria Co. She is also buried at Sandy Point. Ellen married a Mr. Tankersley, and may have been married more than once.
Ambrose, born c1838 and Henry, born Nov. 24, 1840 followed Ellen. I have no information on Ambrose. Henry died Nov. 9, 1857 in Brazoria Co. and is buried at Sandy Point.
The last child was Roxanna, born Oct. 28, 1842 in MS and died aug. 22, 1860 in Brazoria Co. Given her age at time of death, she likely died in child birth. Her husband was William Ward, born c1838 in AL. Roxanna is buried at Sandy Point.
I would like to know more about these children and their descendants. Please contact me at the above e-mail address to add to or correct any of this information.
*Dodd, Jordan, Mississippi Marriages 1826-1900
** Burial & Memorial Locator, Dept. of Vet. Affairs: COFFEY, AARON US ARMY CONFEDERATE STATES DATE OF BIRTH: 1832 DATE OF DEATH: 1912 BURIED AT: PECAN GROVE CEMETERY MCKINNEY, TX 75069 (972) 542-2601
***An inventory of the Sandy Point cemetery can be found at http://files.usgwarchives.org/tx/brazoria/cemetery/sandypt.txt